Cords: to cut or not to cut? Cord Cutting Guide


There’s a lot of talk about psychic or etheric cords, and most of people are in favor of cutting these cords. Some people however are not!!
I hear this a lot : “How can I cut the cord with mom, whom I love so dearly?” Or
“I cannot cut the cord with my daughter; she is my baby, even if she can be a spoiled brat.”
So what would you do?
Would you keep a cord? Or would you just get rid of it?
It can be confusing, right?
What is a psychic cord?
Everything is energy.

The web of life is filled with cords also known as energetic or psychic cords, wispy etheric threads or attachments.
A cord is an energetic exchange between two or more people.
When two people interact an energy cord between them is being formed.
Cords happen in the subtle bodies: mental, emotional, astral and so on.
But they affect the physical body and your life.
Imagine the cord being like a tube.
Inside the tube energy travels.
Now the energy inside the tube might be good, beneficial, healthy or bad destructive, detrimental energy.

We tend to label things as good or bad.
I see a lot of people taking sides and defending one or the other.
The truth is that it all depends on the circumstance.
Let me say it again! It all depends on the circumstance.
And this is Powerful!!!
The detrimental cords are causing damage to both parties involved and also the environment.
The beneficial cords keep both parties in a high vibrational state and add positive energy to the environment.
A cord which is detrimental can be released or cut if one of the parties decides to end the detrimental energy. Once the cord has been removed the good healthy energies are starting to flow and replenish the damages created by detrimental cord and it can happen fast.
Let me give you an example:
the other day I met with a friend and she asked for my help.
She woke up with a headache and was in a bad mood for two days.
She had a strange dream. In her dream her mother who passed away came to visit her. My friend was sort of tormented by the dream.
She had her issues with her mother in the past but when her mother passed away she forgave her and since then her mom was one of her spiritual guardians.
Beautiful!!! We all have heard of similar stories.
when we heal, we heal in layers and until we heal fully the old stuff keeps popping up.
My friend had some remaining issues with her mom that needed healing. Her mother suffered heavily from being abused. My friend picked on her mother’s energy and took her abuse onto her shoulders.
This pattern is very common among sensitive people, earth angels. We cannot stand others’ suffering so we try to lessen their pain by taking onto others energy . And most of the times we don’t even realize we are doing this.
We feel other people’s emotions and we mistakenly think it’s our emotion.
So what do we do?
We continue the vicious cycle.
In my friends case she was so trapped in her mother’s painful energy that she became an abused woman herself. She did a lot of work on this, with great results. However there were still bits and pieces of detrimental energy hidden in the cracks and crevices of this detrimental cord.
It came to the surface via her dream.
Her mother came to her in the dream to remind her to do the work and release the cord. Now that’s when the “ahaaaaa” moment came in!
My friend was OMG that makes so much sense and when things makes sense healing starts because we know what needs to be resolved.
By taking on others energy, specially of suffering or pain we become pain or suffering.
With a little bit of awareness and willingness to heal we can change this.
And this is part of our inner work that all of us need to do.
We need to reflect on what is not beneficial and release it, cut the cord and also find out what is beneficial and healthy and keep it, nurture it.
Inside that energy tube we want peace, joy, love, compassion and all of the good stuff in relation to others.

This way we raise our vibrations, we help others raise theirs, and also the environment. It’s such a powerful thing to do.
Is it possible to have detrimental cords and beneficial ones at the same time?
In my friends case she had a detrimental cord (from her ancestors including her mother) attached to her throat chakra. She had thyroid problems and that is related to the throat chakra and ability to voice the truth.
At the same time she had a beneficial cord in her heart chakra which was the love for her mother.
So in this case cutting the throat chakra cord would make sense while keeping and nurturing the love memory for her mother in the heart chakra.
Negative cords are just pieces of information recorded in the ether, in the memory and our bodies, even in the skin and they stay there. That affects our health, our sanity and our life.
Life is so precious.
Cut the bad cords and nourish the good ones!
Decision is yours…
Where are the detrimental cords located?

Cords are usually located in the chakras. This is where they get rooted.
A detrimental cord that might be in the throat chakra can lead to thyroid imbalance and weak throat, not being able to express your voice, not having enough confidence to stand up for yourself and so on…
A detrimental cord in the heart caused by pain, loss, sadness and suffering can lead to heart problems.
Apart from chakras, there can be cords in other areas of the body.
There might be more than one detrimental cord in different locations or chakras, but there is usually a main predominant cord.
How to cut the cord ~ Cut the cord Guideline
I am going to share with you very simple technique that I teach my clients/friends to do when they cut cords in the video below:


It is a good practice to take an etheric shower after completing cutting the cord.

A good way to establish a strong protection around your energetic field is to sign the cancellation of evil contracts created by man.
Remember this: It only takes one person to remove or clear the cord and it’s such a big deal because we clear the unhealthy energies of both parties and the same time our environment.
We cannot be responsible for others actions or take on others energies as we rub them of opportunities to learn and grow in this life time.
By cutting a detrimental cords we free our loved ones allowing them to reach new stages on their evolution. We can send love and blessings and pray that they will understand their mission in this physical dimension. This way we set ourselves and others free from detrimental bonds while nurturing the healthy bonds.

If you need help in finding those detrimental cords and heal them I am happy to help.
You can schedule a session with me.

If you believe in good karma, share this article and lets all do good, this way we create good healthy connections.
Peace, Love and Good Vibes,


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How to Deal with Angry People: for Empaths

Lovely Empaths,
Reclaim your Space, Reclaim your Power!!! ~ Spirit says 🙂
Empaths can be like a sponge absorbing others negative energy.
They are the ones who feel what others are feeling.
It is a gift, a blessing in disguise which can be painful if not understood and mastered.
Few days ago I went to the park to get some vitamin D from the sun and at the same time get some gentle exercise.
I am in my few weeks of sadhana (spiritual practice/detox) which is about going inward, meditation, contemplation, keeping a very good diet with no diary, no sugar or flour.
As I am about to exit the park I see this young man getting out his car, opening all 4 doors of his car, blasting crazy violent, aggressive music.
I can hear it extremely loud from the distance.
I know who he is. He comes to the park to roller blade and he screams profane, aggressive words while listening to his music.
Ouch! Not again, I thought!!!

So first thing I did, I stopped. Completely.
Then asked Spirit: Okay I am supposed to attract only good stuff. Help me!!!
I had my phone and earplugs with me, I usually don’t take it with me, but this time for some reason I did.
I immediately put on some music and said to myself: keep it grounded, keep it calm, neutral and don’t react to his energy.
I could have chosen to go back or take another route home.
Not this time.
It was a time of empowerment, not fighting but not responding to his energy either.
He is a man in distress with a lot of anger, sadness and suffers extremely.
I could see energy spikes, arrows and fragmented aura.
God knows what’s in his life, but obviously the music is listening to is not helping,
as I see so much anger in his eyes.
When I passed by him I waved “hi” and sang out loud the lyrics of the song I randomly chose on the phone.
Guess what the lyrics were?
“Open up your heart, what do you feel?”

“World Hold on” with Bob Sinclair, a very uplifting song.

In a split second I felt his life’s energy: profound suffering, sadness and anger at the same time.
The moment I passed this man, I felt his higher self saying “Thank you”.
Even if nothing probably has changed at the physical level, at the Spiritual level (where btw all starts here) something has shifted. I could feel it profoundly. 
I thanked myself for not reacting or being aggravated and sent some healing light energy his way…
I usually wear orgone pendants, specially orgone protection pendant if I go out.
But this time I forgot the pendant home, although the pendant still offers remote protection and after so much wearing it, you become the orgone – energy of protection.
The world has quite a few of this type of people.
So how in the world, if you keep a spiritual practice, you attract this type of events, you might ask?
Well, at times during our journeys we encounter this sort of challenges.
They are reminders that we live in a real world that still has abuse, violence and low vibrational frequencies.
How we respond to this is important.
Peoples’ hidden anger can be triggered by not being able to communicate their feelings.
No coincidence the lyrics of the song meant for him were: “Open up your heart what do you feel”
It amazes me how Spirit chooses with precision a perfectly crafted message.
This experience was learning/exchange interaction.
I feel I was there to give him the message to trust his feelings and have the courage to open his heart to heal his frustration, anger and sadness. He was there for me to remind me to stay present, grounded and don’t take things personally and pass another test of mastering my empathic skills.
We learn so much from our challengers and challenges, more then we learn from friends or allies.
Two days after this experienced I went back to the park and saw the man again.
A complete different energy!
He was rollerblading and when he saw me he looked down. I felt his humbleness.
And I felt good and smiled at him.
The world can change if we change!
Anger is a powerful emotion. Sometimes a natural reaction and we all experience it.
If it’s not healed it can be very detrimental to our health and dangerous.
And these events are just opportunities for practicing the new age learning.
Spirit puts us through tests every single day.
If we don’t pass them they put us through the same test over and over until we get it.
So here are a few steps to take when you encounter an angry person or someone who shows aggressive behavior.
1: STOP (it is important to stop thinking, yes stop thinking, because the subconscious mind wants to jump into reacting to this type of energy, either aggressively or passively.)
2. Ask Spirit/Your higher self/Higher Intelligence/God for help and take a deep breath in and out.
The moment you ask with passion and urgency (yes here urgency is healthy because you want to counteract this energy immediately) the answer comes immediately. (in my case it was uplifting music).

3. Whatever you do keep calm, don’t take it personally, this will pass, it’s just momentary. Be Proactive instead of reactive.
4. Ask Yourself what the message is. So you don’t have to be put through the same test again.
5. Thank Yourself for passing the test after the situation has passed.
Because it seals the learning lesson.
It is important to not give energy to the situation, instead find ways to counteract it.
This is a great EMPOWERING way that will not deplete your energy, feed the negative energy of the situation or individual. Instead bring your energy to a high level so when you are in this frequency, the energy will be at least neutral if not increased to a higher level.
Sometimes we need to stand our ground and not chose to go back or turn the other way to avoid this type of situations.
In this case the choice to continue my walk was a good way to just give my ego a shock and to give this young man’s ego a shock.

Being aware and considerate towards others takes some effort. But that frees us.
I have encountered many people like this man and I asked them politely to just respect my space.
If you come from a neutral state people will respect it. It is the energy you put out. I even have people trying to become friends with me when I practiced being assertive.
It is time for us empaths to reclaim our space and stop being victims of others. But we can only do it from a place of neutrality and not reacting to harmful energies.
Yes I love yoga and meditation and in fact I teach yoga and meditation but I also love martial arts and I am also black belt in shotokan karate although I have never had to use this art in an aggressive way.
When you are extremely passive or too aggressive, it really back fires on you.
That’s why assertiveness is the perfect answer: balance the yin/yang for perfect harmony.
We have to become responsible.
So What is Assertiveness?
Assertive is not about being aggressive or passive, but being confident, forthright, positive, expressing feelings and thoughts in a direct, honest appropriate way, respecting others and their believes.
By being assertive we can stop bullies, violence and aggressiveness.
Share this article with other Empaths and Let me know how you deal with angry people in the comments below.
Keep practice assertiveness and be safe.
Much love to you and may your heart be open to goodness.

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Cleanse your Aura with Etheric Shower Method: Podcast

“Etheric Shower” is a simple Method to cleanse your AURA

Empathic, sensitive, intuitive, healers, earth angels can easily pick up energy debris from outside their energy field.

Every time one interacts with another, there is an exchange of energy,
which could be beneficial or not. That’s why is important to clean your
aura on a regular basis.

“Etheric shower” is one of few methods to sweep the aura clean, purifying the mind.

Listen to the podcast here:


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Avoid being implanted during sleep

People ask me what to do to avoid getting implanted by dark forces during sleep.
Feet chakra balancers work great in keeping one protected during night. My husband and I use them often, not only for protection but also for connection with the Earth (grounding) – very important in our modern world to be earthed.
I strongly suggest going to bed sober. If you are not sober you let your guard down and it is easy to be attacked or implanted.
For example marijuana is great tool if used as medicine and can be a great teacher but using it for entertainment and to get high might open your crown chakra without being grounded allowing all sort of entities to penetrate your auric field. I personally have a great connection with this amazing plant without smoking it, but connecting with it telepathically.
Same thing with alcohol. Sobriety is a must if you are dealing with dark entities, implants or psychic attacks.
Heavy drugs and pharmaceutical drugs specially antidepressants weaken ones protection field. Use exercise to get rid of depression. Do it, don’t think about doing it.
‘Sweat’ all the negative thinking out of your body, mind and spirit.
Being grounded is super important if you deal with psychic attacks.
Fear lowers vibration. It is easy to penetrate the auric (energy field) while in a state of fear.
Do not go to bed upset. Never. Use this technique ( 68 seconds ) to change your mood. It helps to raise your vibrations.
Surround your bed with crystals, gemstones and orgone (which has such a powerful impact on protecting aura).
Trust your helpers, guides, angels and ask them to keep you safe during sleep.
Related article:  about implants and how to neutralize them:

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Implants in healers, shamans, mystics

Since ancient times crystals were used to be implanted in the bodies of shamans, priests, healers to capture psychic and spiritual information and insight of these mystics.

When these people died the crystals were removed and reimplanted in others. These procedures are still in effect these days with or without knowing. These crystals have enormous powers and are considered very valuable. A few months ago I have removed such a crystal from one of my ears, without having a clue it was implanted in my body.
Implant Neutralizers are very helpful in removing unwanted implants either etheric or physical. It works on subtle levels neutralizing etheric and physiscal implants, speeding up healing of holes in your aura.
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Get rid of heavy energy ~ Cancel Evil (Man Made) Contracts

This evil contract cancellation “insight” came when  in a psychic group session.
My psychic seeing was guiding us to a lady (spiritual guide) who gave us “pen and paper” to cancel all the evil/man-made contracts we have signed in this life or previous lives.


This contract helps protect against harmful unseen energies, blocking intrusive vibrations, reclaiming sovereignty over psysical body and subtle body, empowering energetic field, listening to only God’s and intuitive guidance, bringing peace of mind, being true to yourself.





The privacy notice has to be signed in order to be valid and of course the John Doe name has to be changed with your name and make sure you change the date with the present date and also remember to sign it above the line.

Also treat this cancellation with respect and thank our spiritual guide for making it available to all of us. Many people that have signed this cancellation benefited tremendously, noticing and feeling great relief.

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“Dear Lilly,
I wanted to tell you, I came across the cancelling evil contracts agreement and I was very attracted to it.
Finally I read it as if I was committing to it and , to my astonishment ..some strange and very unpleasant heaviness that had been on my spirit….’lifted’ off…….and has stayed off… what was that? I have since printed and signed it……….Thank you for making it available. ~ L.C.”



Along with this contract we suggest wearing the protection orgone pendant to keep your aura clean free of any psychic attacks and negativity and also the set of feet chakra balancers that work hard during the night to keep you stable, positive and protected while detoxing and healing the body.

May you always be Protected,


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Cutting cords with the help of Spiritual Guides


Before I went to bed one night I got an inspired idea from my spiritual guides to place a spirit quartz crystal under my pillow. I knew it was necessary, but why? I had to find out the next morning.

After my usual “blessing everything in my life” morning “ritual”, I suddenly got it!
I remembered my dream. Yay!!! It’s so great to remember dreams, specially good ones!!! I have a great technique for it.

I traveled astrally all night and this is what happened:
In my dream I was watching a kahuna (ancient Hawaiian shaman woman) teaching young children at a spiritual psychic school how to remove unwanted cords. She got me really interested as cutting cords is one of the techniques that I use in my healing sessions.

I politely asked her to cut a cord as I knew I had one.

She asked me “How do you know you’ve been corded?”

I replied: “I just know it”.

After she scanned me she confirmed that I was having a thick unnecessary cord which needed to be released. As she was removing my thick cord I could feel a little pain in my solar plexus. After she completed removing the cord she said a “telepathic healing prayer” which I totally understood without hearing it with my physical ears to complete the healing process.

Speaking about telepathy, lately I find it so amusing reading people’s thoughts now and then…

Kahunas are a great inspiration to me: I am really grateful for their spiritual teachings and guidance, they my spiritual healers that work with me during healing sessions.

The energy that this spiritual guide was putting in the healing process was very intense.
She had also placed a pouch with wild high vibrational herbs on my solar plexus to speed up the healing process. After she finished her healing I watched her cleaning a very big crystal she worked with removing the cords. She mentioned to me that the cord I had was connected to three women in my life that did not served my higher level of my excellence and now the attachment was removed, setting myself and the three women free.

I gave her money – equal exchange of energy, I thanked and blessed her and interesting enough I woke up. The dream was so vivid that after I woke up my solar plexus felt like I have had psychic surgery done on it. My higher self (aumakua) knew that I needed the cord removal that’s why I placed the spirit quartz under my pillow to get help from my kahuna spiritual healer.

spirit Quartz Crystal

Spirit quartz crystal is one of my favorite crystals, I love their healing energy. I used them in my meditations, healing and spiritual work, moon transmissions and have them next to my bed. They clean and activate other crystals and gemstones. They are used for dreaming and astral projection. They are known to remove fear, they open and activate crown chakra and maintain a field of protection. They stimulate emotional, spiritual and subtle bodies. They are also known as Cactus, Fairies or Angel quartz.

I start working with them after I had a dream about gifting powerful ley lines on a sacred mountain. In my dream I was offering and placing spirit quartz crystals on powerful ley lines on a sacred mountain and in return I was gifted with more spiritual powers. I love my dreams!!!


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